Wednesday, November 30, 2011

November 30, 2011 - Fingerprint paperwork ; This is a slow process


Today we are working on filling out the I600A form which basically lets us “apply” to get our fingerprints done and allows us to bring a child into the country.  It’s not bad overall, but some of the questions have us stumped and we are waiting to hear back from Mandee to get them answered so we can send in the form.  We feel like the whole process is dragging on at this point.  Just waiting for the next step – which we don’t even know what it is?  Waiting for people to email us back. :/

Monday, November 21, 2011

November 21, 2011 - Home Study Complete; Next Step: Fingerprints


Finally!!! We got our home study in an email today!  We are so excited to get that sent off.  I emailed it to Mandee today so hopefully she can send it to Taiwan very soon.  I also found out we need to get fingerprints done through a state agency.  I believe we have to apply to get them done first though, so that will be my next project to get done!  We are moving along :)

Friday, November 18, 2011

November 18, 2011 - Parent's Night Out Fundraiser


So tonight Matt and I are running a parents night out at Elite.  Call us crazy, I know.  But I am actually really excited because this is our first “fundraiser” for our adoption!  Even though most people are not aware of the adoption yet, we are moving forward with our fundraisers as if everything is on track and we will continue to follow God’s lead through this.

Thursday, November 17, 2011

November 17, 2011 - Got our Home Study Back and Double Checked


We are still waiting to hear the exact details of the new adoption law passed in Taiwan, but until then we are charging forward with our home study.  I received an email from Cindy stating that she had the copy of my home study and needed me to look over it and make any changes.  Of course I checked it right away and sent the changes back to her.  So we are nearing the end of our home study process and will hopefully get to send it to Mandee very very soon and hopefully be put on the waiting list!

Monday, November 14, 2011

November 14, 2011 - More Confusing But Help from Susie


We are still waiting on answers today.  But, I did email Mandee and ask her about the 3-year law implementation.  There is still quite the confusion about this.  Mandee has heard the law might take effect in 6 months, 1 year, or 3 years.  We are currently waiting to hear the final answer.  Ted and Bev in Taiwan are getting the law translated to English and then we will have more answers. One good thing that did happen today was that I got to talk to Susie (home study agent) tonight.  I explained our situation and she is going to “rush” to finish our home study.  She is hoping to have it completed and off to Cindy to put the final touches on it by November 16!! Yes – in 2 days!  I love Susie :)  Anyway, that is where we are currently at with the process.  We are being so blessed by our family and friends that are praying for us!  I know in my heart that everything will work according to God’s plan….even if I can’t see it right now.  I guess you would call that Faith.   

Thursday, November 10, 2011

November 10, 2011 - First Roadblock - Government Rules are Changing


Roadblock.  Today was the first day we went from being on cloud nine with the adoption to feeling completely helpless and out of control.  After logging onto “THOGL” facebook page, it became clear that the Taiwan government would be voting on a law to enforce stricter adoption laws.  I wasn’t aware of the huge problem of child trafficking in Taiwan, but that’s what they are cracking down on (which is completely understandable).  However, there seems to be some negatives that will come out of the new laws.  As I have heard so far, their goal is to allow the Taiwanese people first adoption rights.  The child will be available for adoption with family #1.  They will have a 6-month “grace” period to where they can return the child if it’s not a “good fit” for their family.  The child will be placed with family #2, again allowing the 6-month grace period.  Again, the child will move to the 3rd family.  If none of the situations work out, then the child will be up for international adoption.  We are currently waiting to hear about a possibility of a 3-year hold on the law.  Meaning, the law will not take affect for 3 years?  We are not sure where God is leading us at this point, but we are learning to trust and believe that “it is well with my soul”--- no matter what the circumstances.  Of course we have a lot of people praying and supporting us and that does help so much.